Why do men feel compelled to tell us their opinions on our appearances as though we dress the way we do strictly for them Please follow reddiquette. Equanimity:No drama inducing crossposting of content found in other subreddits, or vice versa.Likewise, posts found to direct odious influxes here cheap louis vuitton handbags may be removed. Grace:No tactless posts generalising gender.We are a welcoming community.Rights of all genders are supported here. Relevance:Please submit content that is relevant to our experiences as women, for women, or about women. Images:No direct links to images, except on image fest friday(Iff).To post an image during the week, do so within a self post and with some added context. Post all memes and rage comics to /r/trollxchromosomes. Fundraising:No links to fundraising pages, please.As a community, we not set up for screening each funding request. Please read our faq for more louis vuitton uk sale bags details Why do men and women feel compelled to tell us their opinions on our appearances?Because it a form of not terribly subtle social control.It an attempt to claim ownership of someone else appearance by insisting that a stranger has the right to approve or disapprove of it.The much maligned negging technique used by pickup artists is just a refined form of this control. Thankfully, that claim of ownership can only be validated with our consent:We have the power to confirm or reject it.If someone voices an unwanted opinion, we can simply point out that we don care. "That sweater makes you look fat. "Hey, i don care.Either i actually am fat, in which case you not telling me anything i didn already know, or it just not a terribly flattering sweater in which case, so what?I not wearing it to please you, i don owe you anything, i just bundling up because it cold.It has nothing to do with you. "You be so much prettier if you did x instead of y. "I don care.Did i ask for your advice on how to best attract you specifically?No?Then why on earth did you think i be interested in your opinion?Maybe i like doing y.Maybe i don like doing x. Maybe itNone of your business either way.Maybe if we were in a romantic relationship, your feelings about my appearance would matter to me. But weNot, so why are you talking? "Women think that z looks good, but it doesn we don care.Seriously, are you louis vuitton?Are you the official arbiter of what is cool, or pretty, or sexy?No:You just some guy posting pictures of women he never met, and pretending that his opinion should matter to them.Protip:It doesn and it shouldn because we don care what you think. I can explain this.I a man and i think that women have more interest in"Fashion"For its own sake than men do.Most men only worry about their looks only so that they can be attractive to women.A lot of men also bodybuilders, fake tan, or wear ridiculous outfits because they think women like them.Most men would literally wear a white t shirt and sweatpants all the time if they weren trying to impress women. I am a man and i honestly have no idea what women find attractive in a man, so they have to tell me.I used to shave my face clean every day because i thought that stubble would make me look bad, but then women told me that they like a man with stubble so now i don care as much.It great.I also sometimes read women article about what they look for in a man because i can tell myself. So if you look at it that way, that guy feels like he providing a service.And let face it it clear that at least some women put on lots of make up and get fake breasts to look good to men.If you deny that you clearly being disingenuous.I think this guy is doing women a service by letting women know what men do and do not find attractive.If women don care what men like, that fine, louis vuitton mens but if you are trying to impress men and you are doing it the wrong way wouldn you want somebody to tell you? The reality is that women don care about what girls lookLike as much as women think.Of course, on a biological level, men are is the louis vuitton outlet uk genuine attracted to big breasts and full lips, etc., but in the real world most men are horrified when they see a woman cake her face with make up or surgically insert plastic bags into her body so it looksLike she has big breasts.That ridiculous and i have no problem saying that that not what the"Vast majority of men"Like. On a practical level, why WOULD a man be attracted to a woman who paints her face to make herself look completely unlike what she really looksLike? And I honestly don know any man thatLikes waif y looking girls.The only reason fashion models are so thin is because because women clothes are marketed to women and the media has successfully tricked women into thinking that"Thinner is better" when its clear that most men donLike super skinny girls.It not healthy and we didn evolve to want to have sex with somebody who desperately needs a sandwich. You know what, i think it strange and offensive that a woman would want to explain to a man what men find attractive in a woman.That the very definition of"Womansplaining. "You never been a man, you don know what its like to be a man, and your opinion on this issue is invalid.That being said, just some food for thought and an observation:

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